What are the four phases of the break-up?

When women go through a break there are different phases that I feel that we go through that I want to share with you. So the first phase is generally what I call total meltdown and complete loss of insanity, and there is two different things women can do when they go through these stages.The first thing is, to me, for example, I discovered that one, I wasn't aware that I am crybaby, that I am a huge crybaby and found that I was in fits of tears for no apparent reason would break anywhere and everywhere.

The second thing was that I was a total binge eater. So if many chocolate cake as I do with ice cream, caramel, everything could. or you could be if one of my girlfriends that exactly the opposite.

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She is a complete recipient and went on to what they like to call a Triscuit, champagne and cigarette diet and lost tons and tons of weight and locked herself in her apartment and just wrote country song after song of the country that's kind of the first phase that you are going through, the total insanity, madness, madness, as I call it.

Phase two is kind of when you put yourself out of that coma.Some days are good days, some days are bad days.You could have a meltdown one day; you'd be a bit stalkerish, trying to track him down, to see where he has, do a little driving by, you know, I've done numerous late night drive by even at my age with my girlfriends everywhere from the age of 20 up to and including the age of 50.So I've learned that no age we are more mature, as well as, you know, other days are you like, "I am better than him so who needs it anyway."

Phase three is kind of when you come to the stage of you realize "I am better than that. who has him anyway," and you sort by that, "I'm going to work out.I'm going to look great.I go myself come together.I'm going to concentrate on my career and I will make all these great, wonderful things. "

And the final stage is kind of Phoenix Rising where you ready to get back out there, go out and take over the city. the world is your oyster and go hitting the dance floors with all confidence in the world so that's what I kind of thought are the four phases of the break-up.